Honestly, as great as our friends are who sugarcoat every little thing for us while going through a breakup, sometimes in order to move on, you really need to hear it how it is. Once you are moved on and happy again, then it's time to break out the ice cream, cookies, talk about how lame the sex was with him, and how he's probably miserable with his Mila Kunis look-a-like new girlfriend.
1. It's not you it's me..... I promise, it's you.
2. There's no one else.... this may be true, but is subject to change within an hour from the time you breakup. So do not hold on this to for too long..
3. They are going to regret this, this will be their biggest mistake... It often happens that the person who seemingly gave "more" in the relationship, hits a breaking point. Once they have made up their mind that they would rather be in a line of fire than in this relationship, they will have checked the hell out. Tricky thing is, check out time and break up time isn't always simultaneous.
4. His new girlfriend is definitely not as pretty as you... I mean honestly think about it. Could anyone say this line, let alone believe it to Tom Brady's ex Bridget Moynahan when he started dating Gisele, or Jen Anniston when Brad left left her for Angie? Sometimes, people upgrade, however this little white lie is still probably is nice to hear. And besides, her ankles totally looked fat in that dress...
5. Single life is great!.... Single life is great. However, it's not great when you arrived unwillingly.
6. I really hope we can still be friends
7. I love you, I'm just not in love with you... All this really means is, I'd hang out with you because I feel bad for you, but I no longer want to touch you or have sex with you. They might as well tell you, 'I really want to rip your insides out, put a knife in your heart, stab your back, and kick you repeatedly when I'm done, but we should totally grab dinner sometime!'
8. You never know what could happen.... All this means is that they want to give you false hope that you guys will get back together because they aren't ready to see you move on and be happy with someone else. Don't believe it. If someone wants to be with you, they will be. Period. No exceptions to that rule.
1. It's not you it's me..... I promise, it's you.
2. There's no one else.... this may be true, but is subject to change within an hour from the time you breakup. So do not hold on this to for too long..
3. They are going to regret this, this will be their biggest mistake... It often happens that the person who seemingly gave "more" in the relationship, hits a breaking point. Once they have made up their mind that they would rather be in a line of fire than in this relationship, they will have checked the hell out. Tricky thing is, check out time and break up time isn't always simultaneous.
4. His new girlfriend is definitely not as pretty as you... I mean honestly think about it. Could anyone say this line, let alone believe it to Tom Brady's ex Bridget Moynahan when he started dating Gisele, or Jen Anniston when Brad left left her for Angie? Sometimes, people upgrade, however this little white lie is still probably is nice to hear. And besides, her ankles totally looked fat in that dress...
5. Single life is great!.... Single life is great. However, it's not great when you arrived unwillingly.
6. I really hope we can still be friends
7. I love you, I'm just not in love with you... All this really means is, I'd hang out with you because I feel bad for you, but I no longer want to touch you or have sex with you. They might as well tell you, 'I really want to rip your insides out, put a knife in your heart, stab your back, and kick you repeatedly when I'm done, but we should totally grab dinner sometime!'
8. You never know what could happen.... All this means is that they want to give you false hope that you guys will get back together because they aren't ready to see you move on and be happy with someone else. Don't believe it. If someone wants to be with you, they will be. Period. No exceptions to that rule.
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